Saturday, May 4, 2013

This is for Prem Kumar


A day or two after our Singapore trip plan got finalized, (We made a virtual tour of Bangkok Pattaya, Sri Lanka and Dubai before we decided to fly to Singapore). got the shocking news of OCP down with a massive stroke. OCP struggled and fought for a month before finally giving up.  Nitin had already reached to be with his father in time. We got the painful news midnight Saturday. By the time it was already the next day, Sunday 8th April, four of us- Baby, Lisa, Aditya and me managed to get in the morning by Indigo, reached Kochi in 3 hours. Always, after our children’s marriage,  Prem Kumar was there at Nedumbassery to receive us.  We had to hire a taxi to reach home as the one who used to receive us was lying motionless in the cooled mobile mortuary waiting for his last journey.
OCP’s was a sudden departure from the scene, a soft spoken he was, we had very limited verbal communications. During the course of five years or so we knew each other, it was I who used more words in talks, he used very few words to express his side, but were enough to build a bond between the two of us. The evenings of our limited Kochi stays were  made warmer by his opening a scotch and that was when OCP made his points louder with words.
Till now It has not fully registered that he will not be there at the airport when we visit Kochi or drive us down for our return in future. Also that we will not have another evening together, with scotch. Here again, I owe him a lot, a good friend.
I was proud to be a relative of this Gentleman who left this world, leaving a very strong imprint in our hearts which will remain, till memories fade. 

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